MEMBERS' DATING ADVICE & SAFETY TIPS (1,400+)

Every situation is different, but it still comes down to being aware and educated about whatever condition you have. Things can get more complicated when either, ... For detail, click here.

I recently met someone for the first time and I was extremelydisappointed. Make sure you ask for recent pictures, that is rule numberone. I believe I was looking at photo ... For detail, click here.

If you say it in your profile, it's assumed by your potential match that it is the truth. Do not put something in your profile to lure the opposite sex to you. Deceit is ... For detail, click here.

You only get one chance to make a first impression. That being said, you really need to be honest. More times than not, honesty is the most admirable trait a person can ... For detail, click here.

Even though it may be exciting and new to date that someone from a website that deals with the same issues you have to deal with it is important to make sure you always p ... For detail, click here.

With out doubt, the worst thing anyone can do in my opinion is to start a live chat only for the purpose of becoming over sexual and graphic. There are places for that on ... For detail, click here.

Okay, so your super pumped about a date..then you feel it..stupid cold sore starting to pop up! It seems to never fail, just like a zit, something to hinder ... For detail, click here.

All relationships are difficult but dating with any STD can even be more challenging. But their are basic practices that can go a long way in building a relationship. I b ... For detail, click here.

Be honest up front. There is a fine line as to when to let someone you are dating know that you have an STD. We obviously don't want to wait until we are about to have in ... For detail, click here.

When I was first diagnosed, I was actually seeing someone at the time, still new not quite dating each other but very close. I found out, told him, and ended up unfortuna ... For detail, click here.

It's never easy to break the news to a non-H'er about your h status. Hopefully, the person will act as an adult and be understanding. The one thing I have found is ... For detail, click here.

It is much easier to date someone with the same STD as you, or even a different one because they really understand. They know what it is really like to be careful and hon ... For detail, click here.

I have had genital herpes since I was 20 years old - that was in 1982. I had been a virgin and decided I was ready to have a more serious relationship. I was very caref ... For detail, click here.

In general it is not wise to date someone without an std when you have one. For one, there is always the risk of giving it to them. Secondly, they now know private inform ... For detail, click here.

Confidence is the key. I have been through I think just about everything when it comes to dating with Herpes. It's only hard in the mind. If you can overcome it in your h ... For detail, click here.

Instead of trying to come out with I have Herpes which sounds worse than it is (could be worse), I say, "I don't want to waste your time as I have the cold sore virus", s ... For detail, click here.

It may be awkward but it is useful to discuss the style in which you manage your condition. Some H sufferers use Valtrex daily, some only use the medication during outbre ... For detail, click here.

Dating was very easy, all the guys liked me and still do, they would all want to stay until I would say, "I am HIV positive." a second later they are gone and I would nev ... For detail, click here.

I just recently found out I was positive. As hard as it is to be honest, and trusting when telling the other person that you are positive is the hardest thing you ... For detail, click here.

A lot of people don't have photos on their profiles. I do understand that you are a little apprehensive about exposing yourself, especially if this is your first time ba ... For detail, click here.