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  • 3 steps to tell the truth
    It's not easy discussing our situation. Who do you tell? When do you tell them? How do you say it? These and many more questions come to mind when we meet someone that br ... For detail, click here.
  • Always tell the Truth
    First of all I have Genital Herpes. I met this guy, he pursued me. I knew after our first date that I liked him. By our second date it was a mutual feeling for both of us ... For detail, click here.
  • Be Calm, Confident and Knowledgable
    When you are ready to disclose make sure you are in a place where both you and your potential partner feel comfortable - this can be a heavy conversation, and you both want t ... For detail, click here.
  • Be Honest with your condition and sincere in dating someone without an STD
    I first contracted genital herpes after an ex and I engaged in oral sex followed by intercourse, neither of us are sure who gave it to who but we know that there was no infed ... For detail, click here.
  • Be careful who you tell. It's best to join a community you can count on.
    You will hear several different theories about this and how to approach it. It really depends on several things including but not limited to environment ( rural,urban, socia ... For detail, click here.
  • Breaking the News
    Honest and open communication with potential sexual partners is very important. Having to tell someone you have genital herpes can be an extremely embarrassing and worryi ... For detail, click here.
  • Breaking the ice on your STD
    When meeting someone new I found that if you like a person then you don't share your situation with them at first. Now when I say not at first I mean let the person get t ... For detail, click here.
  • Choose the best occasionfor breaking the "news" and prepare to fully educate on your condition
    When first meeting someone you don't want to break the news about your condition right off the bat. Give it a few meetings to make sure you are really interested in that ... For detail, click here.
  • Communication skills for how to tell people without HSV
    I'm a guy that's dated many people without HSV (actually all of my relationships). I myself have had it for almost 2 years. Here are some tips for when you tell them: ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't be ashamed to share your story
    So what are we supposed to talk about when we first meet? I mean do we really jump in and start talking about our life long issue (herpes)? I say, why not? That is the ma ... For detail, click here.
  • Don't tell your secret on the first date.
    If you meet someone outside of this website who isn't living with an std as far as you know, don't be so quick to blurt out your condition. Enjoy the date and the many dates ... For detail, click here.
  • Get to Know before the "talk" and Be prepared for any possible reactions
    When meeting or dating someone for the first time that has not tested positive for an STD it is important to begin the relationship on a friendship basis. Its important t ... For detail, click here.
  • Get to know your partner first before telling him/her you have an STD
    I don't recommend coming right out and telling someone you have an STD. Not that it is anything to be ashamed of. It's scary for most people, especially if they have neve ... For detail, click here.
  • Have an emotional connection before you share the news
    I have had HSV2 for about 13 years. What I find is it really hard to break the news to a potential mate. At this point in my life I am more concerned about finding the wo ... For detail, click here.
  • Having "the talk"
    "You should always be sure you like someone before you tell them about having "H." Give it some time to find out if they are the type of person who would care or no ... For detail, click here.
  • How and when should I tell them about HSV2?
    I've often been posed with the difficult dilemma of "when should I tell him"? Many things would run through my mind: "I don't want to lie to him, I should tell him when w ... For detail, click here.
  • How to ask about how/when someone contracted an STD?
    PositiveSingles has already taken the hard part out of having the talk. However, when dating someone you may want to know how/when they contracted a STD. Here are ... For detail, click here.
  • How to break the news to your partner that you have a STD?
    Dating is difficult no matter who you are, but having a STD adds the anxiety of having to break the news to someone you are dating. Honesty is the best policy, even ... For detail, click here.
  • How to share your STD information with none STD partners ?
    Many people have issues in sharing their particular STD's, here's what has personally worked for me with none STD partners (of course): First pick wisely whom you s ... For detail, click here.
  • How to tell someone you like who doesn't have it
    The easiest way I have found to tell someone who doesn't have it, that you have it, verbatim.... "Hey, have you ever gotten a cold sore? Have you ever known anyone ... For detail, click here.

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